Upgrade Your Style (and get a peek into the process I use with style clients)

How to wear clothes you’ve bought

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Ensuring that you wear the clothes you buy comes down to more than just what you buy. Buying clothes you’ll actually wear also comes down to what you do with the clothes you’ve bought. In this post, we’re breaking down how you can treat your clothes after you buy them. PLUS how that impacts your […]

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Love your wardrobe like you love your friends. 15 quotes on love for Valentine’s Day

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What would it feel like to love your wardrobe?  I talk a lot about building and keeping a wardrobe you love. But loving your wardrobe can be a little fraught. We keep a lot of skeletons in our closets.  Last Valentine’s day we talked about love inside & out, being self-conscious and stopping being self-conscious.  […]

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Bored with your capsule wardrobe? How to update it

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What do you do when you’re bored with your capsule wardrobe? Capsule wardrobes have some amazing benefits, including saving time, energy and mental “what do I wear” anguish. But even the best capsule wardrobe can eventually feel stale and in need of a refresh. With a well designed capsule wardrobe you usually get tired of […]

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How to stop body shaming yourself with your clothes

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With the new year cultural “body stuff” kicks into high gear. That can be hard. Here’s a transcript of one of the daily meditations in 5 Days of Style, intended to help you stop body shaming yourself.  Body shaming can come from all sorts of places, I said in this post about buffer phrases “a […]

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What to say when you don’t know what to say

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I love a good buffer phrase. (Aka what to say when someone comments on your clothes/body/hair/makeup/etc and you’re thrown for a loop). As we move into the new year, it’s easy to envision a grand new version of yourself. Unfortunately, those “wake up as a new person” moments aren’t that common, and (outside of movies) […]

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